A Sister Who Is Not Convinced That Having Boyfriend Is Haram In Islam Said:
“Haram love ?!! but our love is “pure” and “innocent” ! Forbidden relationships mean fornication before marriage! But my relationship with him is only through facebook and it never crossed the limits..“
The Answer For That Is:
Dear sister,
Allah says in Qur’an talking about how Muslim women should be “[They should be] chaste, neither [of] those who commit unlawful intercourse randomly nor those who take [secret] lovers. “(An-Nisaa 25)
Secret lover includes your boyfriend too even if your relationship is over Facebook (the net) or the phone
when you are talking to him, sharing your feelings with him and enjoying this relationship your heart is committing Zina (fornication) because fornication is not only related to the sexual relationship but also related to the fornication of eyes, ears, feets, hands, heart…
Prophet Mohammad (salaAllahu alaihi wa sallam) said:”The fornication of the two eyes is an evil glance. The fornication of the two ears is the obscene talk. The fornication of the tongue and hand is the touch and grasp. And the fornication of the two feet is the steps taken towards evil. The heart desires and longs and the private parts abide with or does contrary to it”. (Mishkat ul Masabih, Abu Dawood)
Do you love Allah sister? Because 2 kinds of love would never be together in a believer’s heart : haram love and love of the Lord of the Worlds!
And we add : having a boyfriend will make your life more complicated , about 85 % of women who had boyfriends did not marry them , which will cause many problems with their husbands.
If you make relationships with many boys , you will compare your husband to those boys and you will dislike many of his caracters , you will always think that your boyfriend was more affectionate or more generous than your husband , this comparison will build walls between you and your husband and will end by divorce , the same thing goes with men who have many girlfriends before marriage
Please wake up to protect the society from this huge number of divorces …
Ibn Qayym (rahimahullah) said : “Every love that leads away from HIS Love is in fact a punishment; Only love that leads to HIS Love is a heartfelt and pure love”
Dear sister, know that no matter how much he “loves” you in this Dunya , he will hate you 1000X more than that in the Akhirah.
YES!!He will HATE you, he will blame you for your relationship when he will be between the Hands of Allah, and he will beg for you to be thrown into the fire instead of him!
Allah says in Qur’an :”Al Akhillaa (Friends/the lovers who had forbidden relationships) on that Day will be foes one to another(they will be like enemies) except Al-Muttaqun (the ones who feared Allah) “( 43:67)
Is that the kind of love you want? A temporary feeling you get in Dunya, a feeling inspired by Shaytan which turn to hate in Akhirah?!!
Lets think..
When Allah created us , HE wanted us to be submissive to HIM, every part of us : our eyes, our tongue, our body, our brain, our veins, our soul and …. OUR HEART.!
But is our heart a submissive one ?
Ask yourself this question.!
Actually, you are betraying your own heart, you are depriving it from the sweetest and most magnificent LOVE that any heart could taste : the Love of Allah (subhanahu wa ta’aala)
And you are harming it with a temporary enjoyment: the love of someone whose heart is between the Hands of the One you are disobeying…!!!
It’s time for you to realize that you were born to love The Most Merciful and His Love is indeed the source for all other pure loves in your life…!!!
Live as a good Practicing Muslim and you will never regret it
Real LOVE is not based on romance , candle light dinner and walks along the beach rather it is based On Respect , Compromise , Care And Trust…
You may fall in love with the beauty of someone, but always remember that you have to live with the character forever
Find your HALAL love , Insha’Allah!
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