STOP THIS SICK CUSTOM OF POINTING OUT FINGERS ON OTHER'S DAUGHTERS WHILE SELECTING A BRIDE FOR YOUR SON !!
Many People nowadays arrogantly search suitable brides for their sons but they forget that "They Too Have Daughters"
Many People check thousands of girls by visiting their houses, enjoying snacks and Pointing out faults in their daughters without realizing the fact that it would be so painful for the Family of the girl and the girl herself !
Please Respect Girls, Respect the feelings of the family of the Girl ! Islam teaches us to be Humble and Well-Mannered.
Dont ever think that you have sons so thats why you are superior over girl's family ! Stop this Arrogant Behaviour !
Girls are not "Non-Living" things ! They too possess A Heart ! Never Ever point Out Fingers in the Creation of Allah.
The verse also states:
“Do not find faults in yourselves...”
(49:11)
Tafsir Majma al-Bayan explains these words of the Almighty as: “There are a group of people who incessantly try to pick faults in people and due to the lack of insight of the (negative) traits within their own selves and being unaware of the (spiritual) status of others are constantly looking to find faults in people and constantly strive to lift the curtains that cover the defects and shortcomings of others.”
Finding faults in others is a doubly disturbing characteristic because besides the fact that we are committing a sin by doing so, we fail to recognize our own shortcomings and continue living the illusion that everything about us is perfect and without fault or flaws.
Allah Says :
"We have certainly created man in the best of stature;" (95:4)
Every Human Being is beautiful in his/her own unique way.
Fear Allah when next time you point out flaws in other's daughters and be aware that the same thing may happen with your own daughter as well.
May Allah bless this Ummah and make us realize that Character and Piousness is way better than beauty in A Girl ! Ameen.
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